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Coaching, Mentoring & Retreats for Gay Men Over 40

1:1 Mentoring
retreats
Clarity sessions

Welcome

I work with men who sense there’s more life available to them than they’re currently living. Not because something is wrong, but because something inside them wants more room, honesty, and expression.

My work is relational and body-based. It’s about slowing down, listening more deeply, and supporting real change — not through pressure or performance, but through presence and steady guidance.

There are three ways we can work together.

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Client Love

  • “Since working with Ed, I’ve realised how I want to show up in my life. It’s taken me nearly 40 years to finally achieve this. I still have some way to go, but I’m confident that with his continued guidance, I will make it.”

    — Jonny Benjamin MBE, London

  • “Ed’s style is very gentle and nurturing. He holds space without pushing or rushing, listens deeply, and allows you to find the answers that are already within you.”

    — Andrew Vernon, UK

  • “Just over a year ago, I met Edward and the incredible work that he does in waking us to possibilities and beliefs, to dreams we had let go of and to once again finding our true passions and creativity. He awakened the child in me that no longer fears to believe that everything is possible. I have seen so much change in me over the past year that I can hardly recognise myself from a year ago.”

    — Paul Rafter, UK

  • “I highly recommend working with Ed to explore yourself and receive his support and guidance with whatever you may be navigating. You’ll feel heard, seen, and ultimately lighter and more at peace.”

    — Mario C, Malta

  • “I was at a place where I needed to find some clarity in which direction to go, as well as what were some of the questions that I needed to ask myself. It’s not a magical process, but sometimes it felt like it was. There were several ‘ah ha’ moments.” 

    — Harry Redlich, USA

1:1 Mentoring

Ongoing, private support for profound change

Mentoring is the core of my work. It’s for men who want support to live differently over time. This is not a quick fix or a rigid programme. It’s a steady, relational space where we work with what’s present in your life as it unfolds: relationships, work, creativity, identity, and your physicality.

Together, we focus on:

  • stopping patterns of holding back or self-containment

  • reconnecting with what brings you alive

  • building trust in your own choices and timing

  • integrating change into everyday life

Mentoring is offered in 3-month, 6-month and 12-month containers, depending on the length and depth of support you’re looking for.

This may be a good fit if you:

  • want a friendly empowering presence along the way

  • are at a crossroads or transition, or simply wanting more

  • feel ready to engage more honestly with your life

  • value depth, consistency, and reflection

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Find Your Magic Retreats

Step out of routine. Come back to yourself.

Disconnect from your daily routine and embark on an immersive and guided adventure with myself and my husband Rob. Combining personal growth, wellness and exhilarating excursions, they are designed to help you find fresh perspective and clarity, and a deeper sense of connection and meaning - and to return home feeling clear, calm and connected.

We offer a range of experiences, from organised programs to bespoke 1:1 retreats, with relaxing accommodation, nourishing food, close guidance, and optional post-retreat support.

What makes these retreats different

  • Personal work that’s embodied and real

  • Adventure and exploration

  • Warm, nourishing environments

  • Close guidance and care

  • Integration beyond the retreat

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Clarity Sessions

A one-off session to help you orient yourself

Clarity Sessions are one-off, confidential conversations for moments when something feels unsettled or unclear — even if you can’t quite name what it is yet.

They offer space to step out of your head, speak honestly, and listen to what your body and life are signalling. Together, we’ll explore what’s really going on beneath the surface and bring attention to what matters most right now.

People often book a Clarity Session when they’re:

  • at a crossroads or transition

  • feeling stuck, restless, or unsure of their next step

  • wanting support & perspective without committing to ongoing work

What’s included

  • A 60-minute private session (online) + audio recording

  • A calm, confidential space to speak openly and be heard

  • Body-based reflection to help you move out of overthinking

  • Clear insights into what’s asking for attention now

  • Simple reflections or practices to take away, if useful

This is a one-off session, with no obligation to continue beyond it. Some find one session is enough to reset and move forward. Others use it as a way to sense whether mentoring feels like the right next step. There’s no pressure either way.

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